Most people never experience domestic violence. Unfortunately, however, some estimates put the incidence among Americans at more than 12 million people each year. Women, men and children all can be victims. No socioeconomic or age group is spared. Researchers tell us, however, that young women between the ages of 18 and 34 are especially likely to experience domestic violence. Roughly one in four American women over the age of 18 become victims of abuse at some point during their lives.

October is Domestic Violence Awareness Month. Making people more cognizant of this problem and providing knowledge about options available to victims and their loved ones are key goals of this annual observance. Local awareness projects take place all across the nation. They vary in the activities and details but usually have common themes:

• Mourning people who have died because of domestic violence.

• Celebrating survivors who have found ways to change their lives.

• Connecting individuals who are active in the important work of ending violence.

Remaining silent about domestic violence is not an acceptable response. People who are victims should be encouraged to seek help and at the same time be supported strongly by the rest of us. In many communities groups like the Domestic and Sexual Assault Outreach Center here in Fort Dodge stand ready to lend a hand. So too do a wide array of governmental and community organizations including clergy, health care providers and law enforcement officials.

Here in Fort Dodge, a candlelight vigil will begin at 6 p.m. Thursday in St. Paul Lutheran Church, 400 S. 13th St., to remember those who have been impacted by domestic violence, especially those who lost their lives to such violence.

Much progress has been made, but the essential work of curbing domestic violence and helping victims must remain a priority. The Messenger supports those efforts and encourages its readers to assist in these vital endeavors in whatever ways that they can.