Class teaches skills Tierney hopes her students never have to use
Jessica Tierney told the group of women gathered for a self-defense training Sunday that she hoped they’d never have to use the skills they learned.
But Tierney, who works with the Women’s Self-Defense Initiative out of Mason City, also said that violence against women is a big problem.
“Violence against women is a lot more common than what people realize,” she said.
To combat that, Tierney held two women’s self-defense classes Sunday at Gunderson Funeral Home.
About 12 women showed up to the 1 p.m. class, while a small group of girls attended the first class at 11 a.m.
Tierney told the women that there are three things they need to remember when it comes to situational awareness; assertiveness, trusting your instinct, and setting boundaries.
When it comes to becoming a victim, she said many predators will actually “troll” for victims, meaning they will test them before going after them.
That might include seeing how close they can get to them before the woman gets uncomfortable and tells them to stop, or making inappropriate comments that make women feel uncomfortable.
Tierney’s two-hour presentation included a variety of information.
“We actually focus quite a bit on the predator mindset,” Tierney said, “How they troll for victims and red flag behavior.”
It’s important to recognize that as a way of spotting someone who might be intending to make someone a victim.
Tierney said it’s very important to not blame the victim when someone is attacked.
“Violence is always a choice,” she said. “We like to blame the victim because it’s the illusion of safety.”
According to her, victim-blaming is a way that people convince themselves that they’re safe.
“The problem is what’s happening there is when we’re so easily blaming the victim, the perpetrator isn’t being blamed,” she said. “And he’s not being held accountable for the fact that he made a choice.”
Trusting your gut instinct is something that shouldn’t be underestimated in terms of being aware of one’s surroundings.
“Your subconscious is on all the time,” she said. “And it’s filtering and processing thousands of things a second around you. And it’s processing peoples’ body language, voice inflection, smells.”
The presentation also included demonstrations of different tactics.
Tierney told the women that, should they become a victim of assault, to not be afraid to strike back against the assailant.
Getting the assailant hurt, she said, will stop them and allow time for the victim to get away.
It’s also important to remember to yell to help draw attention to a violent situation.
“We want other people being involved,” Tierney said.
Melanie Fierke, of Fort Dodge, took part in the self-defense class with her daughters, Elora and Eileen.
“I’ve got teenage daughters and I wanted them to be prepared,” she said.
Fierke added that with a number of recent high-profile incidents, such as the abduction and murder of Mollie Tibbetts in Poweshiek County last summer, it’s important for women to know how to defend themselves.
“There’s so many incidents lately,” she said. “I want my girls to be protected.”
Tierney highlighted some weapons that people can get, including pepper spray and another item that can be placed on a keychain and used as a sharp defense object.
Justin Faiferlick, owner of Martial Arts, also spoke to the self-defense class.
“It’s just so needed in today’s society for women and girls to continue training and learning other ways to protect themselves,” he said.