A solid act of kindness
Friendship is being expressed with rocks
The tubs of rocks sitting on the sidewalk in front of the Fort Dodge Community School District Central Administration Building did not really look like much. They were, to all appearances, plastic tubs full of, well, rocks.
The magic happened a few minutes later when one of dozens of students attending a Rachel’s Challenge Team event Tuesday morning picked one up and painted it in bright colors.
There’s more in store for the painted rock down the road. Each student will take their painted rocks home, then hide them for people to find.
Kim Bodholdt, with the Fort Dodge Middle School, helped arrange the event to create the Friendship Rocks.
“They can help spread happiness in your community,” she said. “We saw this being done on Facebook and thought it would be a fun event.”
The concept is simple.
“People paint a rock and put a kind message on it, then hide it,” she said. “When people find it, it brightens their day. We hope they pass it on. That’s how you create a chain reaction.”
While Bodholdt hasn’t personally found one, she did make one at the event and has plans to hide it. Still, her life has been touched by the project.
“I have a friend whose father was in the hospital and not doing well,” she said. “The kindness rock she found on hospital property really made her day.”
Grace Williamson, 5, of Fort Dodge, attended the event with her mom, Jessica Williamson.
As her daughter worked with paint, her mother thought a bit about where the bright rock would end up.
“We don’t know yet,” she said. “We’ll drive around and see. It’s a great way to spread happiness and it gives the kids a great way to experience that.”
Olivia Ferris, 15, of Fort Dodge, was making several rocks to hide. She contemplated what she would do if she found a Friendship Rock.
“I would do what you’re supposed to do,” she said. “I’d put it in another place for someone to find.”
Brooke Hemrick, 17, of Fort Dodge, was also creating rocks.
“It’s just a good message to spread,” she said. “Mine is just bright colors.”
Friendship Rocks can carry any message the person creating them wants. Some have paintings of everything from flowers to fire trucks, some are lettered with a positive message for the finder, some simply are a solid color and have a symbol, such as a heart, on them.
The basic idea is the same, whether the creator is a junior Rembrandt or a 5-year-old abstractionist: Bring a smile to the finder’s face.
Friendship Rock movement
The spread of the Friendship Rock movement has been largely driven by activity on social media. Rachel Stanberg, of Otho, is part of a group called 406 Rocks, one of several groups on social media with that name.
“I saw a friend of mine in Montana doing it,” she said. “It was something she posted on Facebook. I thought, what a great idea.”
She likes the thought of it as a summer activity.
“It’s a really simple idea. The kids are on holiday, you paint a rock, post a picture on social media,” she said.
She’s been pretty active herself; she’s got about 20 rocks done that are ready to distribute.
“Mine tend to have a nature theme,” she said. “I’ve done a bumble bee and a lady bug.”
Stanberg likes that it can bring people together.
“It’s a community,” she said. “Word gets out. People look in places they wouldn’t normally look. It’s a nice surprise to find a rock.”
She hides rocks on her nightly walk with her bluetick coon hound, Nala Joe.
“There’s no strings attached,” she said. “It’s anonymous. It’s just for the sheer fact that it might make someone smile.”
Creating the rocks, along with working on her other art projects, has helped her keep busy. Like many creative people, art is more than just a hobby for Stanberg. She hopes to be able to teach art and work to incorporate art into other subjects and them, into art.
“Art speaks to kids,” she said. “Art has also been my sanctuary.”
Shanna Northrup, of Manson, has also started an online Friendship Rock project in Manson, called Manson Rocks!!!
Active on Facebook, the group features photos of created rocks, found rocks, and there’s even a request from Manson Library Director Laura Koons seeking rocks for a display in the library.